This is the fourth part in the series. Earlier parts – Part 1. Part 2. Part 3.
The Mom
The ones who leave their jobs to take care of their kids. ***Every case is different, there are situations in some families when the best solution is not to have both parents working full time, in that case ignore my further comments.
I have a problem with the assumption that only moms have to leave their job for taking care of kids, it could be men too, why not? Only moms go on six-month maternity leave. Why? All companies need to revise their paternity leave policy. It HAS to be equal. From what I hear Microsoft and Amazon do have (about) equal maternity and paternity leaves.
One of the most important things parents strive for is to model for kids the adults we hope they will become. Parents with daughters tell them to work hard in school and strive for a meaningful career. Sons are told the same, the girls who sit beside them in the classroom are their equals in every way. But if you are a housewife then what happens when that does not square with what your kids see at home? When speaking to your daughters about the importance of focusing on a career and striving for professional success, does a credibility gap open up?
You could tell yourself that your kids will be better off cared for only by you, but there is no research that bears that out, and while there are times that intense parental engagement is needed, working parents are able to achieve that, too. It is a myth that only stay-at-home moms take the best care of their kids or have the time to instill the right values. I have seen brilliant achievers even though they have had both their parents working. Although one may think that for any individual woman staying at home might lead to less stress, more happiness, and a better situation for her family, studies confirm that there is more boredom and depression.
When kids go to daycare, they learn social skills and they also get an early start in learning alphabets, being independent, eating with their own hands and whatnot. And the kids of working women develop a respect for the women kind – again my opinion.  Also remember, women working for pay makes it easier for families to live more comfortably. The sooner women realize that they don’t need to sacrifice, they can always get help and make the men own up to their share of equal responsibility, the faster our society will progress.
Recently a famous sportsperson Saniya Mirza gave birth and said it to be the biggest achievement of her life. How can it be her biggest achievement?  How many women from India have made it big in sports? Also, have you seen the population of the world? Childbirth is the most natural, common and rampant thing and her calling it the biggest achievement of her life sounds bizarre to me. 
Coming up in the next post ‘The Royals’, which is an interesting category of women, the extreme cases are called ‘golddiggers’. 
To be continued…
Stripes Skirt and Mustard Colored Sweater
Stripes Skirt and Mustard Colored Sweater
Stripes Skirt and Mustard Colored Sweater
Stripes Skirt and Mustard Colored Sweater

Skirt and Sweater: Modcloth, Tights: DSW, Shoes: Steve Madden, Tee: Loft